Sleeping arrangements for our toddlers is one of the things that cause me the most anxiety when I think about planning a camping trip. We keep our kids on a relatively strict sleeping situation – in their cribs, super dark rooms, fans, blankets, etc. So when I have to think about putting them to sleep and getting them to stay asleep while camping when those circumstances are different, I get a little stressed out. Strike that, a lot stressed out. Luckily, we seem to have found a situation that seems to be working out pretty well for both of them. If there is one piece of advice that I could give to anyone who is taking a toddler camping, it would be to make their temporary bed as much like their bed at home. You will have much more success at getting them to sleep if they are in a comfortable, familiar surrounding.
In our camper, we have a bunk bed in the back with a double on bottom and a twin on top, a table that folds down to make a double and a couch that folds down to make a double as well. We decided that the best bed for Silas is the double in the bunk to keep him from rolling off onto the floor while he is sleeping. When he sleeps he is all over the bed and often times end up on a completely different side of the bed than when he went to sleep. At the entrance to the bottom bunk is a person sized hole that you can crawl through to lie down. Because we wanted to avoid him rolling out this hole, we had to rig something up that would be sturdy enough to keep him in the bed if he bumped against it, but that would still be flexible enough to be able to be moved if we needed to get to him or if there was an emergency. We tried several things, the scariest of which was a sheet tied between the sides. It was fine until Silas rolled into the sheet and was fighting like crazy to get out. After that, the sheet went away.
One of Corry’s most amazing ideas of 2013 has been to use the top bunk’s twin mattress in that entranceway. He folded it almost in half and when pushed into that entranceway, it fits perfectly along the sides of both walls. We are still able to easily get Silas in and out of that bunk, it comes out easily in case he gets stuck towards the outside of the bunk, and it keeps him safe. Another bonus is that since the mattress is so wide, it blocks out most of the light that we have on in the camper, which leaves the light more like his room at home.
After several different places, we decided that the best place for Isabella to sleep is on the fold down couch. She usually is rather still while she is sleeping, so we really don’t have to worry about her rolling off the side of the bed or anything like that. I make sure, when packing, to pack her blankets, pillows and some stuffed animals that she sleeps with on a daily basis. Because she sleeps with so many blankets and stuffed animals, we can’t bring it all. Normally I bring at least one, if not two, blankets and both glow-worms and one baby doll. All of these items help her to feel more comfortable and more at home, which helps her go to sleep easier and stay asleep longer. She normally fights us a little bit longer before agreeing to go to sleep, but normally because she is so excited to be camping.
All in all I think that we have established a good sleeping arrangement for both toddlers in our camper. Even though this situation in general causes me stress, it is comforting to know that we already have a system in place that works for us and has worked for numerous camping trips.
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Tuesday, April 16, 2013
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Isabella the hoarder
When should you start to get worried that your child has a hoarding problem?
Once Isabella started sleeping in her bed, she slept with her pink glow-worm in her bed. Yes, even when she was a baby - we also used bumpers too ... don't judge. Once Silas was born and her crib was moved into her own room she slept with her music toy (just the music part of a baby crib mobile - see right) and her glow-worm, a pillow and a blanket. A review of this mobile is coming because this has been one of Isabella's favorite items ever. She still listens to this music every single night before going to bed. She seemed fine with that and has usually been awesome about going in her crib and putting herself to sleep. I feel compelled to say that we do not practice cry-it-out; we have been blessed with kids who fall asleep easily.
A few months ago she started asking to take a toy with her when she went to bed. At first it was cute. It was a baby here and a stuffed animal there. However, we quickly realized that it was impossible to remove that item in the morning. It was like asking her to pull off one of her own toe nails to get the stuffed animal back out. And don't even think about saying no that she couldn't take something to bed. Complete toddler meltdown.
We let it go on for some time until it became a game for her. Once you would tell her that it was time for bed, she would gather up every toy that she saw from the place that she was standing until she got to her bed. Sometimes she would tell you that it was too heavy and ask you to carry it for her. This got ridiculous quick. Mom would clean out the bed in the morning and by the afternoon Isabella had amassed an entirely new set of items in or around the bed to be taken into bed during nap time.
Eventually we had to put our foot down and tell her that she couldn't take things to bed with her anymore. Corry and I talked about it before hand that we would leave the items in her bed that were already in there, but we would limit the new items that she would be allowed to take in there. This was a lot easier said than done because a screaming, crying toddler is fairly persuasive around bedtime. Lately we have been able to just tell her that we are going to lay down with Rosie (super cheap Target baby named after the younger sister on Cailou) and she will be fine.
She still has quite a few items in bed including several blankets. More specifically she has all of these items (except the two frames):
3 pillows, three blankets and herself in bed with her at all times. From what I heard, this is normal, right? On one hand, I feel like we are raising a hoarder by allowing her to do this. However, on the other hand, if it isn't hurting her, it isn't stopping her from sleeping and it's comforting her at night, why should I take these items away from her? I am inclined to leave them alone and let her have them in her bed.
If we are truly raising a future hoarder, at least right now she is collecting cute items and she looks so precious doing it!
-Sara
Once Isabella started sleeping in her bed, she slept with her pink glow-worm in her bed. Yes, even when she was a baby - we also used bumpers too ... don't judge. Once Silas was born and her crib was moved into her own room she slept with her music toy (just the music part of a baby crib mobile - see right) and her glow-worm, a pillow and a blanket. A review of this mobile is coming because this has been one of Isabella's favorite items ever. She still listens to this music every single night before going to bed. She seemed fine with that and has usually been awesome about going in her crib and putting herself to sleep. I feel compelled to say that we do not practice cry-it-out; we have been blessed with kids who fall asleep easily. A few months ago she started asking to take a toy with her when she went to bed. At first it was cute. It was a baby here and a stuffed animal there. However, we quickly realized that it was impossible to remove that item in the morning. It was like asking her to pull off one of her own toe nails to get the stuffed animal back out. And don't even think about saying no that she couldn't take something to bed. Complete toddler meltdown.
We let it go on for some time until it became a game for her. Once you would tell her that it was time for bed, she would gather up every toy that she saw from the place that she was standing until she got to her bed. Sometimes she would tell you that it was too heavy and ask you to carry it for her. This got ridiculous quick. Mom would clean out the bed in the morning and by the afternoon Isabella had amassed an entirely new set of items in or around the bed to be taken into bed during nap time.
Eventually we had to put our foot down and tell her that she couldn't take things to bed with her anymore. Corry and I talked about it before hand that we would leave the items in her bed that were already in there, but we would limit the new items that she would be allowed to take in there. This was a lot easier said than done because a screaming, crying toddler is fairly persuasive around bedtime. Lately we have been able to just tell her that we are going to lay down with Rosie (super cheap Target baby named after the younger sister on Cailou) and she will be fine.
She still has quite a few items in bed including several blankets. More specifically she has all of these items (except the two frames):
3 pillows, three blankets and herself in bed with her at all times. From what I heard, this is normal, right? On one hand, I feel like we are raising a hoarder by allowing her to do this. However, on the other hand, if it isn't hurting her, it isn't stopping her from sleeping and it's comforting her at night, why should I take these items away from her? I am inclined to leave them alone and let her have them in her bed.
If we are truly raising a future hoarder, at least right now she is collecting cute items and she looks so precious doing it!
-Sara
Friday, March 15, 2013
Bed times
This is a second part to yesterday's post re: naps... and it's *drum roll please* ....
bedtimes.
Who would have known that what time you put your own children to bed would be such a touchy subject? In the last few days, I have seen some very judge-y mcjudge-erson mothers chastise another mother who had her babies up with her at like 11pm. "Babies need to be asleep at the very latest 8pm or they will (insert something bad here)" or some other nonsense, because of course as a bystander they automatically know more than the child's own mother.
Side note: this "I know more about how you should raise your children than you do" idea is too big to be covered in this one blog. I will touch on that one more later...
Corry and I talked about this bedtime issue in depth before we had kids. I always had a bedtime when I was growing up and he was totally the opposite. I just always assumed that kids needed bedtimes and that they should be strict from one household to the next. As usual though, everything that I thought about having kids has been challenged with my two. We both have to work full time jobs to support our family and knew that we would continue to work those full time jobs after we had children. After much discussion, it was decided that we would keep our kids up as long as we were awake so they would (hopefully) sleep while we were sleeping and this works for our family.
I have lots of friends that I see post things like "my kids woke up at 5am" and those are often times the same parents who will put their kids to bed at like 7:30pm. I don't understand how that makes sense to someone, but who am I to judge? Maybe you like to be tortured by as few hours of sleep as possible? Maybe you like to play a wild game of Russian Roulette to figure out how many hours of sleep you can miss before you turn into a stark raving lunatic?
As is often the case, the best (in my opinion) solution is often the easiest. In my opinion, it makes sense to hold your kids awake as close as possible to the time that you are going to bed, so they will hopefully sleep when you are sleeping. Why torture yourself? Don't fight against your instincts just because society tells you that your children should go to bed at a certain time.
I understand that this will not work for everyone. We are VERY blessed to have my amazing mother come to our house to watch our kids and Addison during the day, so we don't have to worry about waking our kids up at the crack of dawn to get them to daycare or anything like that. I also understand that some people might like the peace at the end of the day to spend with their significant other. Corry and I are both sleepers and would rather spend time catching up on sleep or talking in bed then watching a movie or something like that at the end of the day. To each his own...
With that being said, I put my babies to bed when they are tired, and/or when I am ready to go to bed. I find that I don't have to fight them as much to get them in bed, and I get to sleep in a bit later in the morning too. But that's what works for us... As long as you find something that works for your family and you are happy and healthy, that's what should matter to other people.
-Sara
bedtimes.
Who would have known that what time you put your own children to bed would be such a touchy subject? In the last few days, I have seen some very judge-y mcjudge-erson mothers chastise another mother who had her babies up with her at like 11pm. "Babies need to be asleep at the very latest 8pm or they will (insert something bad here)" or some other nonsense, because of course as a bystander they automatically know more than the child's own mother.
Side note: this "I know more about how you should raise your children than you do" idea is too big to be covered in this one blog. I will touch on that one more later...
Corry and I talked about this bedtime issue in depth before we had kids. I always had a bedtime when I was growing up and he was totally the opposite. I just always assumed that kids needed bedtimes and that they should be strict from one household to the next. As usual though, everything that I thought about having kids has been challenged with my two. We both have to work full time jobs to support our family and knew that we would continue to work those full time jobs after we had children. After much discussion, it was decided that we would keep our kids up as long as we were awake so they would (hopefully) sleep while we were sleeping and this works for our family.
I have lots of friends that I see post things like "my kids woke up at 5am" and those are often times the same parents who will put their kids to bed at like 7:30pm. I don't understand how that makes sense to someone, but who am I to judge? Maybe you like to be tortured by as few hours of sleep as possible? Maybe you like to play a wild game of Russian Roulette to figure out how many hours of sleep you can miss before you turn into a stark raving lunatic?
As is often the case, the best (in my opinion) solution is often the easiest. In my opinion, it makes sense to hold your kids awake as close as possible to the time that you are going to bed, so they will hopefully sleep when you are sleeping. Why torture yourself? Don't fight against your instincts just because society tells you that your children should go to bed at a certain time.
I understand that this will not work for everyone. We are VERY blessed to have my amazing mother come to our house to watch our kids and Addison during the day, so we don't have to worry about waking our kids up at the crack of dawn to get them to daycare or anything like that. I also understand that some people might like the peace at the end of the day to spend with their significant other. Corry and I are both sleepers and would rather spend time catching up on sleep or talking in bed then watching a movie or something like that at the end of the day. To each his own...
With that being said, I put my babies to bed when they are tired, and/or when I am ready to go to bed. I find that I don't have to fight them as much to get them in bed, and I get to sleep in a bit later in the morning too. But that's what works for us... As long as you find something that works for your family and you are happy and healthy, that's what should matter to other people.
-Sara
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